TheFourLoves

THE FOUR LOVES C.S. LEWIS That our affections kill us not, nor dye. ~DONNE A HARVEST BOOK HARCOURT BRACE & COMPANY San Diego New York London To Chad Walsh CONTENTS: Introduction Likings and Loves for the Sub-Human Affection Friendship Eros Charity INTRODUCTION "God is love," says St. John. When I first tried to write this book I thought that his maxim would provide me with a very plain highroad through the whole subject. I thought I should be able to say that human loves deserved to be called loves at all just in so far as they resembled that Love which is God. The first distinction I made was therefore between what I called Gift-love and Need-love. The typical example of Gift-love would be that love which moves a man to work and plan and save for the future well-being of his family which he will die without sharing or seeing; of the second, that which sends a lonely or frightened child to its mother's arms. There was no doubt which was more like Love Himself. Divine Love is Gift-love. The Father gives all He is and has to the Son. The Son gives Himself back to the Father, and gives Himself to the world, and for the world to ......